The bitter truth about love

I think I really don't need to hear this. It sucks when you like you a person so much and they find delight in telling you about other people they like. "Stubbornly Honest" people? or they just like to intentionally hurt people's felings? When I think about it, there are a lot of ways to break a heart gently. Why must they choose the painful option?

There are some who believe its a better way to be direct with people so they wouldn't hope or expect anything in return. Some believe that its okay to "play with other people's feelings", Some, just like me, prefer to say it bit by bit until the other person understands the whole issue. I admit its "killing the person softly" but i think it's better than to give it in one BANG!...

I'm starting to get a feeling that emotions are playing with people and not the other way around. Yeah, I mean unconsciously, people even go nuts over different and mixed emotions and we are left with no choice but feel them. Its funny how something abstract can make and destroy people.God works in different ways we can't seem to understand and he leaves us to discover the meaning for ourselves.

Yeah, yeah... the more you get hurt- the more lessons you learn. But I don't really get it why we have to be hurt to learn things, when it can be taught.